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Are You Prepared For Your Child Custody Hearing? PDF Print E-mail
Written by ChildCustodySecrets.com   
Wednesday, 23 April 2008 13:03
The court plays a significant role in determining what is in the ‘best interests’ of your child. The court considers all aspects including physical, educational, spiritual, emotional as well as preferential requirements of a child, so it makes a study of homes of both parents, along with schools, location, neighborhoods and facilities, before making a decision on custody.



Although the courts have the best interests in mind, there can’t be anyone more important in making the best decision for their children than parents. Parents should try and settle their Child Custody issues outside the courts. A custody decision arrived on your own with two agreeing parents is more desirable than the one which is disputed a determined by the court.


 
Preparing for the Child Custody trial, you should possess certain documents and information related to your children, which will help determine the best interests of your child. It is better if you maintained a record of your children’s life about events which affect them, like visiting with the other parent, grandparents, doctor’s appointment, school activities, family and religious activities, medical appointments and counseling dates, etc. You should support your position, by keeping notes with you regarding,



1. Parent’s Home

This factors determines whether you can provide good surroundings and adequate shelter for your children, the size of the house, neighborhood, availability of help and babysitters, hospitals, bathrooms, bedrooms, etc. play a significant role in determining the best one for the child. Though not an important point, it does help make a good impression.



2. New Relationships

This is a comparatively irrelevant factor in determining Child Custody cases, the court will consider this factor if only the relationship makes any impact on the child’s well being. If the new relationship does not play any important relationship then this point will not be relevant to determination of Child custody.



3. Status Quo

It is an important factor in determining custody case, if a child’s parents reside in different districts, it in unlikely that the court will order to change the residence during the academic year, especially if the child is being properly brought up. If you want a change in status quo, you will be required to furnish a strong reason for this. A good example would be an issue with the current conditions unsafe for the child.



4. Child’s Preference

A child’s preference is not considered by the court since the court will not give a child to make a decision for himself, however this might not be the case if the child happens to be a teenager and possess enough power to think and evaluate position.



5. Parent’s Availability

Full time parenting has an advantage over working full time for supporting oneself. However, the court might not deter from giving you the custody only because you need to work to support yourself and your child.

These are just a few things to consider while preparing for your Child Custody case.
 
 

Family Law Terms

ANSWER - The Second Pleading in an action for divorce, separation or annulment, which is served in response to the Complaint and which admits or denies its allegation.
CHILD SUPPORT - Support for a child (not taxable to the recipient or deductible to the payor spouse).
COMPLAINT - The First Pleading in action for divorce, separation, or annulment, setting forth the allegations upon which the requested relief is based.
CONDONATION - The adultery of a spouse is NOT grounds for divorce.
CONTEMPT OF COURT - The willful and intentional failure to comply with a Court Order, Judgment, or Decree by a party to the action. Contempt of Court is punishable by fine or imprisonment.
CONTESTED CASE - Any case where the Court must decide one or more issues that are not agreed to by the parties. Cases are considered contested until all issues have been agreed to.
DEFAULT ORDER OR DEFAULT JUDGMENT - An Order or Judgment granted by the Court without the other side's being heard because they failed to plead or submit papers within the time allowed or failed to appear at the hearing.
DEFENDANT - The one who defends the Lawsuit brought by another. Same as Respondent.
DEPOSITION - The testimony of a witness taken out of Court under oath and reduced to writing. Depositions are taken for the purpose of discovering the facts upon which a party's claim is based; obtaining financial information or discovering the substance of a witness's testimony prior to trial.
DISCLOSURE -
Procedures followed by attorneys in order to determine the nature, scope, and credibility of the opposing party's claim and his/her financial status. Disclosure devices include depositions, written interrogatories, and notices to produce various documentation relating to issues which are decided in the case. Psychological examinations, blood tests, and court social-service investigations are also part of disclosure.
EQUITABLE DISTRIBUTION OF PROPERTY - A system of distributing property acquired by spouses during their marriage in connection with a divorce or dissolution proceeding. The division is based on a variety of equitable factors, including length of the marriage, relative financial contribution, contribution as a spouse and homemaker and respective need. Title to property in the name of either spouse does not necessarily restrict the Court's right to award all or part of that property to the other spouse as part of an Equitable Distribution.
GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE - The legal circumstances which must be proved before a divorce can be granted, also called a "Cause of Action." Florida is a 'no-fault' state which merely requires there to be irreconcilable differences between the parties.
INJUNCTION - A Court Order forbidding someone from doing a particular act which is likely to cause injury or property loss to another party (same as a Restraining Order).
INTERROGATORIES - A series of written questions served upon the opposing party in order to discover certain facts regarding the disputed issues in a matrimonial proceeding. The answers to Interrogatories must be under oath and served within a prescribed period of time.
IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES - Differences between spouses that are considered sufficiently severe to make married life together more or less impossible.
JOINT PROPERTY - Property held in the name of more than one person.
JUDGMENT - The Order of the Court determining the action requiring the parties to do certain things or setting forth their rights and responsibilities.
JURISDICTION - The power of the Court to rule upon issues relating to the parties; their children or their property.
MAINTENANCE - Spousal support (deductible to the payor spouse and taxable as income to the recipient).
MARITAL PROPERTY - Accumulated income and property acquired by the spouses during the marriage, subject to Equitable Distribution by the Court. Property acquired by gift from third parties or inheritance, and personal injury recoveries is not marital property.
MEDIATION
- An informal, voluntary process allowing parties to work with a neutral third party (the 'mediator') to develop a separation agreement. An agreement developed with a mediator is said to be a 'mediated agreement.'
MOTION
- A written application to the court for some particular relief such as temporary support, injunction, or attorney's fees, which is made upon advance notice to the other party.
PLAINTIFF
- The party who files the Lawsuit.
PLEADING
- Formal written application to the Court for relief and the written response thereto. Pleadings include complaints, answers, counterclaims, and replies.
SETTLEMENT AGREEMENT
- The agreed resolution of disputed issues reduced to a written document.
SHOW CAUSE
- (Same as Order to Show Cause) Written application to the Court for some type of relief which is made upon such notice to the other party as the Court directs and which may contain a restraining order, temporary injunction, or other ex parte relief, pending the determination of the Motion.
SUMMONS
- A written notification to the Defendant that an action has been commenced against him, and requiring that the Defendant appear within a specific period of time to answer the Complaint.
TEMPORARY MOTIONS
- Applications to the Court for interim relief pending the final decree of divorce, separation, or annulment. Typical temporary motions include motions for temporary maintenance, child support, attorneys' fees, expert fees, custody, visitation, enforcement or modification of prior temporary orders. The Court enters a temporary order after determining a motion. Motions are brought on by the service of a notice of motion or order to show cause, with supporting affidavits.
TRIAL
- A formal Court hearing to decide disputed issues raised by the pleadings.